With just love in my heart, and I was really loving, when I recommended Marisa Peer, and her 21 days relationship challenge, to Norwegian women I came by.
I saw her again yesterday, she was so offended that I was unsure of if she wanted to hit me or what. So I needed to take many steps back. I got really scared.
She had checked out Marisa Peer, and after see Marisa Peer was therapist, she decided to be very offended. Because she didn’t need therapist. She was so angry that me thinking I was something better then her!
She used words as “you made yourself bigger then me, you made yourself better then me, you wanted me to see therapist”
I told her I didn’t knew Marisa Peer personally, I did take the challenge myself, I just recommended something that has helped me a lot.
Just that is biggest red flag of them all actually, when someone gets this much offended. But I really dont know anymore how to talk to Norwegian people without them getting offended.
Scandinavian people have this law, Janteloven. Its about you are not allowed to be different, and if you are different you are not welcome. You are not allowed to think you can do better, and be better person.
Im not sure of anything today. I feel more alien than I have been before. I need stronger women around me. I need to restore my faith in empowered women who wants to empower women. This little town with only 500 people, and my nearest neighbors, hilly billy people who think I wants to be their girl just because I smile and say hi. So I have stopped with smiling and say hi after 6 years now.
I just look the other way and make sure to not get any eye contant.
What to do? How to empower women around me here, when they get offended this easily?